You have nothing to be disartened about, Your Babies are Beautifull, and they are only cheapskates, that are bidding, Waiting untill the last miute. It's like at the doll shows 'you think you have a winner and all they are doing is picking your brain so the can go home and make their own, I know I"ve been there. So that's why when you are at these places you have to tell them it's a secret, but if they wan't to learn oroperly ,you can give them a class but it has to be paid up front.(((HUGS))) June m from Oz